My father is a native Italian and he adores his national cuisine. But I like American food, hamburgers, roast turkey and all that. He can't stand our fast food, and I hate his pasta-pizza-macaroni stuff. But there's one recipe we both like - classical cherry strudel. We like the one with cinnamon and a ball of ice-cream (here you can find the recipe
https://recipent.com/). It's good when at least one dish unites your crazy national food-haters family.