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08-06-2015, 09:51 PM
I thought I knew a lot about female sexuality, but after having sex expert Emily Nagoski (http://www.thedirtynormal.com/about/) come by the show, I realized how much more there was to it! Emily has been writing and educating about sex for 20 years, and has taken special interest in helping women achieve more pleasure, more often, and more confidently. She has a bestselling new book out called Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life (http://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090), and we covered all the bases in our chat together.
Even The Playing Field
If intercourse isn't necessarily happening on your terms, there are some basic rules you can lay down to reestablish “orgasm equity”. Now, keep in mind, the orgasm doesn't necessarily mean sexual satisfaction - “pleasure” is still the most important variable to consider. But “if orgasm equity is important to you,” says Emily, “make a rule that he isn't allowed to have an orgasm unless you have one.” She insists that this is a perfectly legitimate exchange, albeit not for every relationship. But if you want it to be so, then make it happen! Put your man up to the challenge.
Check out the full interview with Emily here (http://start.westnet.ca/newstempch.php?article=2015/08/03/more-pleasure-more-often-_n_7930582.html).
And be sure to pick up a copy of Emily's bestselling new book, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life (http://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090)!
You can submit all your questions for our future guests on Mondays with Marlo on Twitter (https://twitter.com/MarloThomas) and Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/MarloThomas).
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Even The Playing Field
If intercourse isn't necessarily happening on your terms, there are some basic rules you can lay down to reestablish “orgasm equity”. Now, keep in mind, the orgasm doesn't necessarily mean sexual satisfaction - “pleasure” is still the most important variable to consider. But “if orgasm equity is important to you,” says Emily, “make a rule that he isn't allowed to have an orgasm unless you have one.” She insists that this is a perfectly legitimate exchange, albeit not for every relationship. But if you want it to be so, then make it happen! Put your man up to the challenge.
Check out the full interview with Emily here (http://start.westnet.ca/newstempch.php?article=2015/08/03/more-pleasure-more-often-_n_7930582.html).
And be sure to pick up a copy of Emily's bestselling new book, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life (http://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090)!
You can submit all your questions for our future guests on Mondays with Marlo on Twitter (https://twitter.com/MarloThomas) and Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/MarloThomas).
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